Since the early years
of 19th century, ordering brides via mail had never lost its popularity amongst
the men for finding a special bride. Some men found the love they have been
looking for and some women found the financial security, family and new
horizons in foreign countries. With the increasing popularity, business got
bigger and bigger, dozens of new agencies formed and millions of singles tried
building families and in fact 54% of them succeeded.
What changed was with the birth of the Internet, some people whom we now call
‘scammers’ used the advantages of online
dating services and thousands of innocent men got suckered millions of
dollars for finding the love or a possible wife from foreign countries. These
scammers posted some fake pictures on dating sites, emailed innocent men using
special patterns of content in their messages and mostly succeeded in their
evil plans.
So must you be afraid of looking for a russian bride on the net? Definitely
not. According to researches, 89% percent of russian women looking for a spouse
on the internet have honest intentions and only 50% percent of this women can
find the love from distant lands. And again according to the researches 76% of
scammers are men who even do not live in the country they claim.
So what can you do to avoid being scammed? How can you know if your potential
bride is a scam or not? So here are some tips to differentiate a scammer from
an honest woman:
-
You have a profile on a dating site. Maybe you’re not so popular or
even you don’t have a picture on this site. And out of nowhere you started
getting letters from a russian beauty. That’s is a red flag and you must be
very cautious.
-
The picture(s) is another point. Some russian girls do not have the
financial means to buy a digital camera or even to get their pictures taken
from a professional. So if the picture(s) you’re seeing is too good to be true
or the image names contain long numbers, this is another flag.
-
A scammer never reads your emails properly. All they do is to tell
about themselves and pretending to fall in love after 3-4 letters.
-
If she/he talks about her financial problems in the first or second
letter, this is a big red flag and it’s better if you can reconsider wasting
your time or money with her/him.
-
Never send any money for VISA or airplane tickets, sick family
members or phone bills. If she really loves for whom you’re, she will not ask
for this before she meets you anyway.
So these are some important points you must
never forget or ignore. It was proven that the best way to meet a woman from
abroad is visiting her on her city. If she’s a scammer, she will try everything
to avoid this, anyway. While involving in communications with her, ask straight
questions and look if you’re getting sincere & honest answers or are you
being avoided?
After knowing each other and the first dating stage, do not hesitate to start
talking on the phone. Listen to her voice and try to discover if she is a woman
in love or she is after your money.
If you keep these tips in your mind and take the necessary cautions. You may
find your dream love from Russia or other countries. Don’t forget that there
are thousands of honest russian women looking for an honest man like you. If
you are sincere and honest to them, they will return you the favour.
This article is a property of MyBestDate. This article may be
reprinted if the copyright information is left intact and the links
live.
